Long-term residents and newcomers struggle to make friends beyond nightlife and meetups
A 3.5-year Bangkok resident says friends got busy or partnered up and he can't make new ones. A 60-year-old American says he is going stir crazy after three years in Thailand. A 22-year-old half-Thai says meetups are tourists or people in their 30s.
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iPhone and Android app
Third Place: an app that forms a small weekly group around one shared interest
It matches four people who like the same thing, say board games or running, and fixes a recurring slot at a venue near all of them. The AI writes the intro in each person's language and picks the place.
Build with React Native or PWA, Google Places, Supabase, Claude matching
AI agent
Friend Scout: a voice note about you, and an agent finds three weekly groups
You talk for a minute about your interests and schedule. The agent searches for recurring weekly activities nearby, drafts a short message to each organizer, and puts the first session in your calendar.
Build with Whisper, Claude agent with web search, Google Calendar API
Hardware and sensors
Open Seat Lamp: press a cafe table lamp's button and nearby members get a join-me ping
A small Wi-Fi lamp with one big button sits on a cafe table. A solo regular presses it to say 'I'm here for the next hour, join me', the lamp glows, and members of the local group within walking distance get a short notification with the cafe name.
Build with ESP32, arcade button, NeoPixel ring, Supabase realtime, web push
Web portal
Soi Walks: a board of low pressure invites, like a 7am walk, by station
Meeting people is easier with a small ask. A page lists casual plans tied to a BTS or MRT stop, such as a Saturday walk or a market trip, and the AI keeps them short, clear and in English and Thai.
Build with Next.js, BTS and MRT station data, Supabase, Claude for rewriting
Web portal
Hello Deck: tell it three things about each of you and print a card deck for your table
Two strangers each answer three questions. The AI builds a 20 card conversation deck from what they actually share and what is different, formatted for a home printer or a cafe print shop. The awkward first ten minutes are handled by the cards.
Build with Next.js, Claude, print-ready PDF with card layout
What people reported
r/Bangkok: 'The city gets lonely', 3.5 years in and struggling to make friends
reddit.com60-year-old American seeks single peers to hang out with
reddit.com22-year-old half Thai wants age-matched English-speaking friends; meetups don't fit
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